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| Lily and me at Evolve Restaurant |
It seemed like ages since I had spent any time with my dear friend Lily, so we made plans to visit on Sunday. She is having some back issues, and I am still dealing with my own recalcitrant body, so instead of a walk, we ended up eating at the Evolve Restaurant and each having a beer. I like IPAs, and she likes lagers, so we were both very happy with our choices, along with our meals. I had avocado toast and she had a salad. Those two poached eggs on top of the toast were quite tasty and felt almost like an indulgence. It doesn't really matter where you eat out these days; it's getting pricey everywhere.
Today marks the beginning of a new era for me. I'm thinking it's time to stop hiking every week with the Senior Trailblazers. My eyesight is deteriorating and now, so is my body. After the fall a month ago, it has been like I've moved into another place, and it's becoming more of a challenge to go on anything very long or steep. I might be better after more time passes, but it feels really different. I'm going to find other activities that make me feel whole again. I know that it's possible, with some experimentation and by surrounding myself with good people whom I love.
It's also wonderful to have a community of people like me to hang out with. My time at the Senior Center is always gratifying, and I think I'll find new ways to volunteer, since I find it fulfilling and worthwhile. If my eyes were better, I'd again take up reading books, but I can always listen to them instead. I've been learning how to get more information via the spoken word rather than reading. I'm ready for a new beginning!
Adapting to life as we age is such an important part of life as a senior. Life evolves as we adapt. It sounds exciting, Jan. Enjoy!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I am happy for you. Keep evolving and adjust to your body’s changes.
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DeleteGood to see Lily again! I bet you had a great visit. You just need some time to fully recover, so be patient with yourself. I bet by Summer you can hike short distances:)
ReplyDeleteIn your community you will find others who just want to take pleasant walks and talks. Soon just being outside will bring the fragrances of spring. Summer sun will warm you as you take pleasant morning strolls. There will always be something to look forward to.
ReplyDeleteYou are recognizing that a change has to be made. You will be happy as you will feel much more secure.
ReplyDeleteYour outlook is positive. 👍
ReplyDeleteDJan, you seem to be able to adapt well to change... and find other ways to enjoy your days. Just cutting back sometimes works. (BTW, I love avocado's / toast or no toast)
ReplyDeleteI was amazed that you were still hiking uphill so many miles. You are fantastic, but it's nice that you have an option to spend wonderful time with friends like you.
ReplyDeleteI love your outlook. The start of a new chapter in your life. Good for you.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to see you and Lily together again.
ReplyDeleteYes, I guess it's time to move into another chapter of life. You will find your way, of that I have no doubt. :)
Monumental decision. I remember when you gave up jumping out of perfectly good airplanes 😆 Now you are "off the trail," and heading for another adventure. It will come. One that is slower, easier, calmer. Well, maybe not calmer, I've been to some of those senior activity centers and those people can really get "going." Keep us apprised of all you do. You are a good role model for those of us coming up the trail behind you.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to have lunch with Lily and think about the future. Make good use of that coffee shop and the Senior Centre and stay active!
ReplyDeleteSounds like a lovely lunch with a dear friend, and delicious food.
ReplyDeleteSlowing down seems to come to us all at one point during our lifetime, I'm sure you will stay busy with other options and activies.
Hugs,
~jo
I'm glad to hear this, DJan. Finding new ways to be content is a gift.
ReplyDeleteChange must happen.
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