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When I logged on here for my monthly FaceTime post with my sister Norma Jean, just a short time ago, I realized that it has been a month, enough time to start the healing process of losing a beloved pet. But in many ways I realize that it's just begun. I didn't see him every day, but I knew that sweet soul very well, having visited many times over the years. His presence was constant and taken for granted in so many ways. But, inevitably, as happens with our furry friends, they leave before we are ready to say goodbye.
During the holidays, our losses compound themselves and join with the dark skies and short days, with the light seeming distant. Those of us who have been around long enough to know that it's just part of the cycle of life and death, still feel it very strongly and look forward to the light and love returning.
Norma Jean seems to be doing very well, all thing considered, and I think I am also doing quite well, all things considered. Tomorrow is the final day of this year, with another one being born and, hopefully, bringing us lots of delightful surprises, of the good kind. Feeling happy to be a part of the universe right now.
We seem to stop and pause as the new year appears. Or at least it seems like we stop
ReplyDeleteGlad to read Norma Jean is hanging in there DJan. And I like your grateful words as well. Happy New Year my friend :^)
ReplyDeleteGrateful for a new year too. My new grandson is jumping up and down in my lap at 3 months old. Got him a Johnny Jumper bouncing thing so he can start his skydiving training like his Granny. Or maybe because his Dad did bungee jumping over the Zambezi River too. Linda in Kansas
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year's Eve, DJan! I'm up early this morning... not sure why, but just had a cup of tea and it's only 5am. Will probably go back to bed in a little bit. But wanted to say that I hope Norma Jean is doing OK with the loss of her fur baby. It can be difficult. They are missed.
ReplyDeleteWishing you and SG a wonderful healthy happy 2026! Sending you hugs and good vibes, my friend!
Losing a pet is difficult, as I realized once again this year. Yes, we do carry on because there isn’t much choice.
ReplyDeletePets get into our hearts. It is hard to let them go physically for sure. I hope the New Year is good to you and your family, Jan!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year! You never get used to losing a pet, you know it will happen but it really sucks when they die. We still grieve for Chance.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year DJan!
ReplyDeleteGood. Glad you’re feeling happy. Happy new year!
ReplyDeleteGigi Hawaii
DeleteWe lost several good friends in 2025 and it's still difficult for us to process that they're not with us. I do still feel like they're here and I just need to text them. Sigh...
ReplyDeleteHowever, it's really a time to be grateful they were in our lives and be grateful for those who are with us now. I am very grateful for you, DJan. Have a wonderful 2026!
Happy New Year to you and yours DJan !
ReplyDeleteMy condolences to Norma Jean in the loss of her beloved pet, it leaves a hole in your heart.
Hugs,
~Jo