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Terry in her happy place |
Yesterday, when I went to a midday yoga class, I had time to walk over to check out the Value Village across the street from the new Senior Center. And there in the store was my dear friend Terry, who I recently learned is moving back to Canada, where she was born and raised. I've known her from the Senior Center, where she worked behind the coffee bar for years, and is now recovering from surgery just a week ago. She was pushing along a walker, but I suspect she won't be needing it much longer. She looked strong and happy to be back rummaging the aisles of Value Village. Rarely have I gone to the store and not run into her there.
Years ago, Terry wanted to join me in a skydiving adventure, so she and I drove to Skydive Snohomish and jumped out of an airplane together. She was with one of my favorite instructors, Vlad, and he treated her to a jump of a lifetime. I followed them out of the plane and took her hand in freefall. Terry was so overwhelmed by the experience that she remembered little of the dive itself, but Vlad filmed it and she was able to say, later, that she did indeed have a great time. I remember that feeling of not being able to take in what was happening in the moment, but that had changed over the years to one of familiarity. It's been more than ten years since I made my last skydive and hardly remember much of those days. I have logbooks, some of which I peruse now and then, but that's like another person did all that, not this current version of myself.
One day, I suspect that all of the years of hiking will feel the same. Each segment of our lives has its moments, but if we are able to move on when time and circumstances change, it makes for a much happier life.
I think I told you about the squamish cell carcinoma I had removed awhile back, and I have since learned that it will be a few weeks more before the Mohs surgery that will excise the cancerous cells from my neck. I wish it could be right now, but that's not how it works. First the biopsy wound recovers, and then the surgeon digs it all out. Apparently Mohs is used whenever the cancer is on the head and/or neck and requires plenty of tissue to be excised. Today I went to the doctor's office to have the biopsy looked at, to see how it's coming along. I called them because I was having difficulty with the bandage causing it to itch. The nurse decided I don't need a bandage any more, just clean it with soap and water twice a day and cover it with vaseline. I'll be glad when the whole ordeal is done and behind me. Until then, I am in good hands with my new dermatologist. I probably won't meet the surgeon until it's time for the deed to be finished.
That's it for the week's news. See you again next Tuesday with actual dates. At least that's what I'm hoping for. I sure would appreciate some virtual hugs, if you have any to spare.
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I hear ya when you want the procedure to be done yesterday.
ReplyDeleteSending a virtual hug. Wondering why Terry is moving back to Canada?
ReplyDeleteI know the feeling! I had to wait somewhere around five months for my Mohs surgery on my face and where the biopsy was taken never completely healed. They never told me it had to and that wasn't the issue. It was trying to find a surgeon because ours was booked up for nearly a year! I got a visiting surgeon from California. So glad it is done! You will be, too. I hope yours is done much faster!! :)
ReplyDeleteHere you go 🥰
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like the medical people know what they are doing, Jan. You are in good hands. Take care, my friend.
ReplyDeleteVirtual hugs here!! Yes, I understand that. I too am not looking forward to the Mohs surgery on my eye. And that biopsy is taking a long time to heal. Then it will be messed up again. Stressful to be sure. That jump with your friend Terry sounds like a memory she will never forget.
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